Year: 2009

Juice, Juice, Healthy Juice

Andy writes a post out of order…

Last Sunday, after Leilani’s party, we had almost a full case of children’s juice boxes left over. We took them out of the ice cooler to dry and Leilani was helping me put them away. As we were doing so, Leilani said she could be a juice vendor, I suppose because it looked like we had as many as on a store shelf (a regular store, not Costco where they actually came from).

But with the cooler still full of ice, I immediately thought of an ice cream vendor, like the ones we see every time we go to a park now (thank goodness Leilani knows they sell bad ice cream). I asked Leilani if she wanted to go sell the juice at the park, just like the ice cream vendors, and she immediately asked if she could ring the bell.

So we put the juice back in the cooler, and put the cooler in our scavenged wagon. Everyone contributed to the idea, Leilani got some balloons also left over from the party, Sonja wrote a sign and had the idea to make it a fundraiser for Leilani’s new school, and I found a bell. And then we were off.

Leilani actually walked all the way to the park, only riding on the way home. I practiced with her how to offer the three flavors of juice and tell people the price. When we got to the park, there wasn’t the huge crowds we had seen on Saturday, but it was sunny and lots of kids were at the playground. We walked slowly through, with Leilani ringing the bell. People looked, saw the signs, but nobody came running to buy from us. Fortunately, there were some baseball games further in the park, so we just kept going. By then, I figured Leilani needed to advertise some more and I told her to shout “Juice, juice, healthy juice.” I was willing to organize everything and pull the wagon, but she had to do the selling. But there still weren’t that many people around and nobody bought anything.

After maybe 20 minutes, Leilani got tired of not selling and wanted to play. We parked the cooler in the shade and ran around for a while, playing chase in a quiet part of the park. I had to get Leilani to focus on the juice business again, but we eventually went back through the park. This time there were more people and one of the mothers watching a baseball game bought a juice. It turns out, the lady also writes a blog about living in San Bruno and took Leilani’s picture with the juice wagon as well–look for the San Bruno Life blog link in the list to the right.

But it was too little, too late. Leilani was getting tired, and we still didn’t sell anything on the main playground, I guess everyone expects ice cream and everyone has juice already. Leilani wanted to stop and play, but I thought it was awkward to just leave the cooler there and run around. So we walked home and soon Leilani was riding on top and drinking a juice. I took the picture of her above back at home, holding the first dollar she earned (almost) by herself. I had a juice too, while I was putting the juice away again, so at least we got rid of 3 of them.

I’m not quite sure what Leilani thinks about selling. She had lots of fun, but I could tell she was disappointed we didn’t sell more–but how to make her understand the problem of demand and marketing on her first try? It’s an important skill to learn, for both her and the parents, because starting with her new school, we have about 15 years of fundraising ahead of us.

What is God?

Now that Leilani has pondered the question “What is Death?” for a year and a half, followed by a 3 months break she has a new one: “What is God?” (and “Why do people go to church to pray?” “Is praying the same as blessing?”…)

She has a tendency to repeat questions until she gets a good answer – unfortunately there are questions that have none, at least none that I know… At least I tried to explain what I think I know…

I talked about our “blessings” before on the blog – we usually bless food, the people who prepared it and helped it grow, the rain and he air and the earth and the sun that made it grow, our friends and family, animals, good and happy things… but recently Leilani blesses new things. A few days ago it was “The whole world”… then “The whole world and the Garden where the Shama lives” [the Garden is the inner world where we sometimes do guided meditations] and then “I bless the One” (not a male or female One but a gender-neutral One), she spoke German, and Andy wanted to know what she blessed, and we kind of interrupted the blessing and asked several times to get a clearer answer because it seemed to strange a concept for a 3 year old… we are pretty certain she meant oneness (Einheit or Einssein)

Pacifica Llama Walk

We went to Pacifica to the beach, but unlike all the previous times, this time we went south:

We met a lot of animals, starfish and hermit crabs in tide pools, friendly dogs, cats, and more exotically, llamas and ostriches (not pictured).

Leilani immediately spotted the pirate flag:

This flower is called “Farewell to Spring” or less poetic “Clarkia Amoena”

In the end we played in the sand and found pretty rocks.

No, no, don’t leave me!!!!

Screams echoed through the summer-camp transformed Coyote Point Museum… I had been forewarned by other parents about separation anxiety, and also, after they fired Leilani’s initial teacher at Glen Oaks Montessori, Leilani had a few days of drop-of-fear, but there were kids clinging to mom’s legs, screaming kids and way too many parents still there… but I’ll start at the beginning:

Leilani had been very quiet on the drive to her first day of summer camp, I turned around several times to make sure she was OK (and not asleep) she pretended to be very busy with her breakfast pizza* and gave a brave smile when I talked to her. When we got out of the car I realized she had really eaten all of the 2 slizes of x-large pizza. She walked very slowly across the parking lot to the entrance, basically I had to drag her, and barley greeted the cheerful camp-leaders welcoming us. Maybe she could hear the “No, no, don’t leave me!!!” screams already…

A teenager was appointed to lead us to the right camp, and she happily told us that she had been coming here all her life, and how much we’d love the camp. But by now I could hear the screams too. And saw the clingy kids. I signed Leilani in, and worried… “You won’t do that, right?” I asked in German looking at the terrified kids. “Nein” answered Leilani with a very little voice. She looked around – so many activities, kids and toys. She carried her backpack to the right place and came back to me. “Can I leave?” I asked. “Yes” she replied much more confident, kissed me, ran off and didn’t even look back at me.

Her level of independence and self confidence really surprises me. Our parenting philosophy that included attachment parenting and co-sleeping and extended nursing, promised well adjusted self confident and independent kids, and it seems Dr Sears was right about that…

* The choice for breakfast had been cake leftover** from the party, or yoghurt with cereal, but Leilani knew the big pizza box was still in the fridge…
** Friday the day before her summer party 10 additional people RSVP’d bringing up the total to 38, we ordered a lot more food, but I think at no time did we have more than 20 people, half of the food we took home, fortunately we had a lot of good stuff like veggies and salad and fruit that got eaten soon, and Leilani and Andy are bravely working on the pizza and cake…