



Leilani made a hat from leftover pinata parts
















Leilani made a hat from leftover pinata parts












We had signed up for a class at the WSPA but it was canceled after just 2 sessions, so we were left struggling to rearrange our entire summer schedule or send Leilani to ballet classes. We opted for the rearranging. Leilani probably would have enjoyed ballet too but Sonja has issues… anyway, the hula was fun and Leilani got to talk about Hawaii and Stitch a lot.
The Hukilau



Max was the only boy and the youngest… the photos where he is not goofing off are cropped :-)









Before class

Leilani’s preschool teacher Liselle asked the kids to bring in their flags. We could not decide.

They were a family project… Sonja cut, Leilani glued – at the correct position but with bad tape… and Andy reglued.

… and while he was reglued Leilani took pics

The flags were hanging in the classroom

together with lots of “American” flags

No, the interview did not go well.
The first question was: You have an unsorted array of continuous integers and one is missing – find it. I suggested sorting, that would have worked but was not the solution he wanted, then I suggested a binary map, but that was not the most elegant solution either. With a little help something like o over n or so I determined the min, max, added them up and called a virtual function expectedSum and figured it out.
The next one was worse. Write a C++ function that gets an integer argument and outputs a string hex representation of that number. No functioncalls. Oh, and less than 10 lines. I understood the question. And I wish when I sit in meditation my mind could be as blank as it was when I should have answered. I sputtered masking and bitshifting and xor but did not write a single line.
It was over right then. The SQL question was a nested query, and I did not recover until the shell script questions.
What does the $ sign mean in a bash script … if it is undefined what happens… what does if [ $? -eq 0 ] mean… and a few more, I got these right. Took over an hour, and I am glad it is over…
Well, there was a heated discussion about that in California. Leilani was bound to hear it right? And she was so relieved when she got my answer… one of her girlfriends wants to marry a girl. But then it escalated. Well, how do they have babies. And I explained about in vitro fertilization and other medicinal miracles. And boys? There is no way right? If two boys marry they can’t have babies… Umpfh… I was surprised that she got the biology of that right away. I was close to calling gay acquaintance of mine and ask how he got his kids. I tried international adoption and surrogate mothers… no they don’t really sell the babies… they try to make sure they give them to good people nice parents…
7 hours later: I picked up Leilani from the Little Gym. There was a newspaper, and on the front face a photo of 2 men kissing… and they were wearing suits. I had never before seen guys kissing while wearing suits … but Leilani probably had never seen men kissing “Look mommy, the two guys are kissing each other. Are they going to get married?” I felt someone stare at me. Probably the fat lady with the Texas accent and the “We are here to show you how its done” T-shirt who had just complained that Walmart is too far away and they have one at every corner in Texas. I still switched to German, just in case to answer Leilani’s question. And was very happy that I hadn’t dodged the earlier questions.
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