{"id":434,"date":"2008-12-16T06:40:48","date_gmt":"2008-12-16T16:40:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/simplify-your-life.com\/blog\/?p=434"},"modified":"2008-12-21T18:10:27","modified_gmt":"2008-12-22T04:10:27","slug":"yelling-quietly","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/simplify-your-life.com\/blog\/?p=434","title":{"rendered":"Yelling Quietly&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t really like to yell. Especially not while my throat is still sore &#8211; like right now. But sometimes Leilani does not move on otherwise&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Yesterday was story time at the library at 7 pm. In order to give the kids an incentive to get there on time, they get extra cute name labels if they are there ahead of time,. In the beginning Leilani wouldn&#8217;t take no for an answer &#8211; when we got there late she marched up to the already reading librarian and demanded her name tag. By now she is just very upset if she doesn&#8217;t get it &#8211; so she gets one at the end. <\/p>\n<p>So I try pretty hard to get her there on time &#8211; yesterday I started at 6:40 (it&#8217;s a 3 minute drive, 10 minute walk) &#8211; Leilani had to finish playing. At 6:45 I draged her into the living room, told her we were in a hurry and put her shoes in front of her and started to get dressed myself. Leilani grabbed her chair(!!) and ran into the kitchen. I went after her, put the first shoe on and told her again, that we&#8217;d be late otherwise and she would not get a name tag. I turned around to get her coat and she took off again. At this point I started yelling at her. Loudly. She looked at me sadly with a trembling lower lip and said: &#8220;Mommy, Mommy (for once not Sonja like she usually calls me) could you please &#8230;[sob]&#8230; yell at me a little more quiet&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>I had to laugh, and she was really proud, and we did make it on time &#8211; Leilani was the last kid to arrive, just when the librarian picked up the book, but she was nice enough (and knows Leilani&#8217;s attachment to the labels well enough by now) to put if back down and write her name tag.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I don&#8217;t really like to yell. Especially not while my throat is still sore &#8211; like right now. But sometimes Leilani does not move on otherwise&#8230; Yesterday was story time at the library at 7 pm. In order to give&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":38,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/simplify-your-life.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/434"}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/simplify-your-life.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/simplify-your-life.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/simplify-your-life.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/38"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/simplify-your-life.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=434"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"http:\/\/simplify-your-life.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/434\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/simplify-your-life.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=434"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/simplify-your-life.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=434"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/simplify-your-life.com\/blog\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=434"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}