{"id":585,"date":"2009-06-14T07:54:59","date_gmt":"2009-06-14T17:54:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/simplify-your-life.com\/blog\/?p=585"},"modified":"2009-06-14T08:09:22","modified_gmt":"2009-06-14T18:09:22","slug":"why-a-new-school","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/simplify-your-life.com\/blog\/?p=585","title":{"rendered":"Why a new school?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"message\">\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: normal;\">Money certainly is a reason, but the bigger reason I summed up in my comments to this post below. Don&#8217;t get me wrong &#8211; her teachers were nice people, they genuinely love kids and are trying to do the best for them &#8211; but the method is flawed. <\/span><\/h3>\n<h3><span style=\"font-weight: normal; font-size: 13px;\">(Actually, according to Leilani the reason is the playground)<\/span><\/h3>\n<h3>Pre-K Recommendation<\/h3>\n<p>Does anyone have a Pre-K class school to recommend? My son already attends a super school, but he has some learning delays, so our neurologist recommends something &#8220;more structured and smaller class size&#8221;. My son has already been in a play based preschool for 2 years&#8230;he&#8217;s 4 so we&#8217;re looking for a more formal Pre-K from here to as far as Northern San Mateo.<\/p>\n<p>Thanks!<\/p><\/div>\n<hr \/>\n<div class=\"comment_actions\"><strong>Comments<\/strong><\/div>\n<div class=\"message_id\">\n<div class=\"module_solid message_avatar\">\n<div class=\"middle\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bigtent.com\/profile\/10137663?trackback\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"avatar-6451\" class=\"avatar nav-image\" title=\"View alisagrassi's profile\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bigtent.com\/usr\/avatars\/10137663-5-avatar.jpg\" alt=\"avatar\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"date\">6\/8\/2009<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"message\">\n<p>I hear Millbrae Montessori fits that criteria.<br \/>\nAlisa<\/p><\/div>\n<hr \/>\n<div class=\"message_id\">\n<div class=\"module_solid message_avatar\">\n<div class=\"middle\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bigtent.com\/profile\/15414049?trackback\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"avatar-2060\" class=\"avatar nav-image\" title=\"View ajeh80's profile\" src=\"https:\/\/static.bigtent.com\/images\/icons\/standard\/icon-avatar-no-gender.gif\" alt=\"avatar\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"date\">6\/9\/2009<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"message\">\n<p>Nurture and Nature is a great preschool in Millbrae. Please check out their website. I hear the teachers are fantastic!<\/p><\/div>\n<hr \/>\n<div class=\"message_id\">\n<div class=\"module_solid message_avatar\">\n<div class=\"middle\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bigtent.com\/profile\/me?trackback\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"avatar-7863\" class=\"avatar nav-image\" title=\"View your profile\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bigtent.com\/usr\/avatars\/14005559_avatar.jpg\" alt=\"avatar\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"username\"><a class=\"nav-link\" title=\"View your profile\" href=\"https:\/\/www.bigtent.com\/profile\/me?trackback\">me<\/a><\/p>\n<p class=\"date\">6\/12\/2009<\/p>\n<p class=\"time\">I saw that 2 of you recommended Montessori schools &#8211; I had my daughter in 2 different Montessori schools the past 2 years, and I could not recommend it any less. She will be attending Millbrae nursery school next year, which is more play based, so probably not right for you either.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"message\">\n<p>I still would like to list my problems with Montessori schools:<\/p>\n<p>1) Montessori is not a registered term &#8211; anyone can call anything Montessori, no matter how little it had to do with the original idea of Dr Maria Montessori. The ones sticking strictly to &#8220;real Montessori approach&#8221; ignore the past 100 or so years of research.<\/p>\n<p>2) Frequently they have no, or very little playgrounds without equipment (&#8220;no room for it in education&#8221;)<\/p>\n<p>3) No creative, free or pretend play, no dressup, no roleplay, no silly books. (&#8220;no room for it in education&#8221;)<\/p>\n<p>4) Hardly any art, crafts, music &#8211; instead almost all of the kids &#8220;graduating&#8221; from Montessory preschools read, write (good spelling too) and do math at a level that will leave them bored in Kindergarden.<\/p>\n<p>Our children have a lot of years of studying and work ahead of them. I don&#8217;t want to cut my daughter&#8217;s childhood short by taking these few years of play away from her.<\/p><\/div>\n<hr \/>\n<div class=\"message_id\">\n<div class=\"module_solid message_avatar\">\n<div class=\"middle\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bigtent.com\/profile\/14119511?trackback\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"avatar-6135\" class=\"avatar nav-image\" title=\"View victorialau's profile\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bigtent.com\/usr\/avatars\/14119511_avatar.jpg\" alt=\"avatar\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"date\">6\/13\/2009<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"message\">\n<p>No recommendation to give&#8230;sorry, but Sonja &#8211; I wholeheartedly agree with you on the Montessori program.<\/p><\/div>\n<hr \/>\n<div class=\"message_id\">\n<div class=\"module_solid message_avatar\">\n<div class=\"middle\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bigtent.com\/profile\/11053933?trackback\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"avatar-4049\" class=\"avatar nav-image\" title=\"View jennyl's profile\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bigtent.com\/usr\/avatars\/11053933_avatar.jpg\" alt=\"avatar\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"username\">6\/13\/2009<\/p>\n<p class=\"time\">&#8220;Montessori is not a registered term &#8211; anyone can call anything Montessori, no matter how little it had to do with the original idea of Dr Maria Montessori. The ones sticking strictly to &#8220;real Montessori approach&#8221; ignore the past 100 or so years of research.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"message\">\n<p>THANK you! This is partly why I never work at them (I am an ECE Teacher) &#8211; I could open one in my garage and call it Montessori!<\/p>\n<p>Michelle OP: Many play based classroom still have a focused work time. I think that would be a good option. Look for one that fit both &#8211; not just one kind of teaching.<\/p>\n<p>HTH!<\/p><\/div>\n<hr \/>\n<div class=\"message_id\">\n<div class=\"module_solid message_avatar\">\n<div class=\"middle\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bigtent.com\/profile\/10120571?trackback\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"avatar-5757\" class=\"avatar nav-image\" title=\"View jeannelondon's profile\" src=\"https:\/\/www.bigtent.com\/usr\/avatars\/10120571-2-avatar.jpg\" alt=\"avatar\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"username\">6\/13\/2009<\/p>\n<p class=\"time\">\n<\/div>\n<p>My oldest son had some delays and we had a horrible experience with Montessori. We are having a fabulous experience with Calvary. My middle son just finished his kindergarten year and was very well prepared for elementary school with 2 years at Calvary under his belt, not only academically, but socially, as well. It is play-based and may not look as structured as some other programs, but all of the teachers are fantastic and well trained in providing a developmentally appropriate program. They are also very experienced in working with children with special needs\/IEPs. Good luck!<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p>There were a few situations when Leilani was talking about her school just as I was talking about my place of work (while working for cooperate america or pulling viruses of a client&#8217;s PC) or a high school student in the middle of a stressful test preparation &#8211; and most school days when Leilani asked her morning question: &#8220;Where are we going to go today?&#8221; (Monday Wednesday and Friday she went to school) she was \u00a0then trying to convince me to stay home (&#8220;I&#8217;ll play nicely in my room and let you work&#8221;) or go someplace else with her. Somedays she loved her school, and certainly she loves her friends and teachers, but I think the negatives weigh much heavier.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Money certainly is a reason, but the bigger reason I summed up in my comments to this post below. 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