Crawling and Teetering

After the frustrating trip to the Big Island, Leilani finally got down to crawling and really satisfied her desire to interact with the world. So many new things were now within reach, so many new places became accessible, and she discovered new games such as chasing a ball, a cat, or being chased by Daddy.

Recently, she loves to climb over obstacles such as Daddy’s legs when he’s playing on the floor with her—and she learned to avoid a face-plant. She even learned to “bear-crawl” on her feet instead of her knees whenever she wore a dress that tripped her or whenever going over rocky ground that hurt her knees.

But all that is not enough, it’s a big world and the big people are all doing interesting things far above her reach. I can’t remember when she started to pull herself up on furniture, but now she just stands up and holds on for balance, and does it all the time—all that baby proofing the entire house is paying off. She is also very good at leaning back down and then tipping backwards to fall down sitting.

The more she practices, the more confident she gets. A few days ago, we saw her let go of Mommy and lean towards Daddy to catch herself—no hands for half a second. And she routinely plays on shelves, either leaning and using both hands, or holding on with one and waving the other. The problem is that she sometimes forgets the need for balance and lets go at the wrong time. Today for the second time, she let go indadvertently, hit her face on a lower shelf, and cut her lip on her little sharp teeth. This caused her to bleed a bit and cry a lot. Fortunately, it was never serious and stops quickly, but today she has a swollen lip and she definitely feels it when she nurses or eats.

Garlic, Ginger and Mint

Leilani’s sense of taste is amazing.

We put a pinheadsized amount of toothpaste on her toothbrush now – she likes it! We know that there are strawberry flavored toothpastes available, but I suppose they’ll go the way of the babyfood too. She wants what we eat / use…

Garlic seems to be her favorite spice, but she likes all herbs we tried so far and ginger too. Things spiced with hot peppers, even in pretty small doses she does not like, so with Mexican food we are careful not to get salsa on her portion.

Her favorite breakfast food are pancakes, she likes pasta with pesto and vegetables very much, and salmon and butterfish. Slowly she starts to eat fruit again, small amounts, and doesn’t seem to favor sweet fruits a lot. Today she suprised me by eating quite a bit of pomelo (jabong) – a type of grapefruit, after she had breakfast, for desert.

By far the strangest thing she likes is codliver oil. It is a distilled oil, heavy-metal free, and supposedly peach flavored, but in no way can that mask the flavor that’s underneath… Andy completely refuses to ever take it [that’s not true, I’d just rather eat salmon—Andy], and I only did while Leilani was nursing excluslively, on days when I didn’t get to eat my flaxmeal (for the essential omega-3 fatty acids). Since she doesn’t eat a lot of flaxmeal these days either I tried the codliver oil…

Andy says: I think Leilani likes what is good for her. She doesn’t know that fish liver oil tastes bad yet, and her body craves the good fat.

Camping in Castle Rock State Park

On the last weekend in California, October 6-8 we went camping to celebrate Andy’s birthday. It was Leilani’s first backpacking trip (hiking+camping, as opposed to car camping), and her coldest camping. The resident ranger even took our photo, because it is so unusual for people to go camping with babies there—and because Leilani is so cute in her little mouse-ear hat.


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with Andy in front of stairs

We drove up highway 9 from Santa Cruz, through the beautiful redwood forests. We hiked in pretty late on Friday, the trail was 3 miles instead of 2, it was cold and misty and we were wondering if this was such a good idea. But we got to the deserted campsite in plenty of time to find the best spot, build the tent, and eat dinner. Then Leilani got very cranky and started crying a lot—we thought she was tired or afraid of the dark, unfamiliar surroundings so we walked and bounced her until she calmed down and fell asleep 9:30 pm or so.


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Fortunately she slept most of the night pretty well, just from 3:00 to 4:30 she was awake, occasionally nursing, grabbing a nose or whacking Andy, or talking loudly to herself. The next day we found a big insect bite on her, so maybe that’s what set her off.

We all slept until 7:30, quickly had breakfast, and hiked out, just in time to meet our friends. Peter, Alan and Anant showed up very much on time, so we did a short walk to Castle Rock and had our picnic lunch while we were waiting for Ruwan and Eric (Xiangrong). After watching the climbers for a while, we climbed into some eroded formations and on some of the nearby rocks.


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in the cave with Anant

Around noon we loaded up with some more food (and “beverages”) and hiked back to the campsite. The weather was perfectly sunny this time, and the views spectacular.


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hiking, peter

We had a relaxing afternoon mostly sitting around at the campsite, playing with Leilani, and drinking beer. Peter and Alan came only for a day-hike and went back to their cars, then Lisa joined us in the late afternoon, and Ruwan showed up in the evening.


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evening w ruwan

Leilani made a lot of noise at one point, she had not taken long naps and was cranky, and so the campers at the next campsite moved their tent. Later she was good again, and slept well all through the night—thank you, Leilani.


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Leilani got up really late (2nd last of all the campers!) the next day, we had a warm breakfast, and slowly packed up. Jane showed up a few minutes before we were ready for the hike out. We took a different route than the day before and again we had great weather and views. Leilani even fell asleep in her carrier.


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hiking out

The adventure of the day was a rattlesnake right in the middle of the trail, but everyone made it out alive and unhurt. When we got back to Kauai, we found a black spider in the backpack (actually on Leilani’s suit) so maybe that’s what bit her.


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RANT: House-Swapping with a Baby

Warning! This article is – against the spirit of the Baby Blog – very negative. But all true.

The houseswap in the Bay Area did not work out as planned. Instead of sharing the house with one very quiet person, who is hardly ever there, never leaves her room… we found 3 people, 2 sisters and a little boy, living there, obviously very inconvenienced by our stay. They had a few – heavily tatooed and shaven-head – friends on Sunday night. My immediate call to their dad changed things a little, but mostly shifted hostilities underground: Tablecloth down, tablecloth up and other un-babyproofing games…, 3 loads of laundry a day, each soaking for hours…, heater thermostat cover removed, and heater turned off 4-5 times the 2 mornings when I bathed the baby until the temperature was at least around 20C / 65F… (I gave up trying most other days.) In the end it was turned off at the funace and we had to call their dad again… We had to clean up after ourselves (and after the baby) all the times, no matter how inconvenient, otherwise we found our stuff in the playpen… we had their car only for 5 days instead of the whole stay… also there were lots of toy weapons of every kind and lots of books on guns…. I guess that their mother cleans up after them, I’m not much of a housewife and it just bugs me to have to take out the overflowing trash every day (OK Andy did that most the time), do everybody’s dishes… I am not sure if we’ll ever do a houseswap again, but if we will we will research much better, and certainly insist that nobody else is in the house, not even occcasionally. At least the parents seemed nice enough, and they left our house clean and as they found it.
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When house swapping with a baby it is extremely important to have privacy, private space, and the ability to spread out, and that’s just not compatible with roommates.

Earthquake!

We are all fine, have power and everything is OK. There were actually two earthquakes, the first at 7:11am the second weaker at 7:25am. The house shook gently, the wall hangings banged, but nothing fell or broke (screwing the furniture to the wall for Leilani might have helped). Leilani and the cats didn’t even get up, Andy went back to sleep and I turned on the TV (which we still have upstairs after the house swap).

CNN and Fox news have lots of news, all our local Oahu TV stations are off the air. They say it was a 6.3 magnitude quake off the NW coast of the Big Island–the Kohala coast where all the resorts are. There are reports of mud slides on the Big Island but no deaths.

We’re not really worried about earthquakes, we know they happen on the Big Island because of the volcanism, and like today’s they are not felt stronly here. I think they have tiny quakes on Kauai (probably due to the island settling), but I think we have nothing to worry about. Of course, a tsunami is always a threat, but we are uphill about 150′ (50 m) from the ocean (on purpose).